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Dear Uncles

This post is dedicated to the newest Uncles, by virtue of being promoted from being the 'Bachelors' to becoming 'Masters' as in getting Married! Dear Mrs & Mr Mainak, First, a personal apology from me, because I could not come to any of the four venues! I really wanted to, but I have fallen sick thrice in the span of 8 months of my new job, thus already out of holidays! But, we hope that the struggle that you two went through for finding each other and then holding on to each other and then finally staring a journey of completely different magnitude was worth all the effort. I saw the pictures- and the two of you are looking wonderful! Made for each other! I wish we could solicit some advice to you, you know about the new married life et all, but I would rather that you share with us the newest experience of 'Marriage' to all of us!!! I am sure that there are stories and then there are stories that you would want and even if you don't want, we w...

Relations, commitment , career and confusion !!!

friend 1 says me : I used to love a girl deeply n madly . She wanted to marry me . I said I had to build my career for next two years so you have to wait for me . She couldnt wait because its a long wait for a girl . Last year she got married . I thought I would get over her but I was wrong . Today is her birthday and I called her to realize that she is the only girl I had ever loved . friend 2 says : we both were into relation . one day she said me something that hurt me n i didnt talk to her for next one year . She tried to to call me a million times but i ignored her. Few months back I got a mail of her wedding invitaion. I called her up n got to know that she was trying to contact me to ask for marraige. friend 3 says: She was my best friend . We were together for long time n knew every minute detail of each other . She expressed her feelings towards me . I told I have never thought about you more than a friend .To my surprise she continued to love me and take care of me . I didnt...

Time goes by- Not so slowly!

I have this big collage in my room, the collage chronicles my 2 decades of being on this earth. *It was a gift from my younger sister on my 20th Birthday*, and trust me, every day for 5 mins I look at it, and wonder how days have gone by, and all of a sudden we all are grown ups! *by we, I mean all of us and ofcourse the child hood friends and the cousins in the similar age bands!* I still remember it was such a tough job, trying to convince my mother to take me shopping, rather the day she decided to take me with her, it was a treat! And today, I shop for her and give her surprises! There was a time when deciding the cake for a birthday was a huge huge thing, going and placing the order with dad, deciding on the flavour and design.. today it just comes.. and there is hardly any festivities about it. There were those dreaded exams that used to decide all the family gathetrings, today those have to be decided keeping the work hours in time! Boyfriends, were for the super duper cute ...

when u r single ...

Its more than a month & I havent found a girl ...But I am enjoying this new found freedom ... After some 4 years I am not into any relation...Also I am not seeing anyone coming in near future... So, let me share the feeling of being single .... lets go point wise.. 1) U save heavily on phone bills ...Remember my post "har phone bill ke peeche ek ladki ka haath hota hai".. My phone bill has come down from Rs 1500 to Rs 600 ... Also I call my friends more frequently ... Girls can leave u at any point of time without caring for anything but friends always give u a hand at any time... 2) U are free from any tension of calling any girl ... n i have felt that girls want u to call when u r extremely busy like in a meeting ...Then they will get angry so much as if u have done a murder... if u repeat this few more times they will find a new guy to talk :) 3) U dont have to search new ideas to give gifts to ur girl ... Frankly speaking I have tried all kind of possible gifts that c...

A farewell date ...

I donno how many of u have gone for a "farewell date" but I had my 1st a few days back ... The 1st ques coming in the mind of you all is who was that girl .. well due to privacy reason i cant disclose that but certainly u all know her - my shopping girl ... The girl with whom I had an ultimate shopping girl & I had put a post on that ... What place should we choose for this type of date ?? Preferably some restuarant which is not having much of rush & the waiters dont dance on ur head... I was fortunate to find this type of place .. what an awesome place it was ... Great ambience & thankfully not a single customer was there ... Now since its a farewell meet, so emotions would obviously start pouring out but we should have control on that ... On the last meet order all the fav of ur girl even if u dont like those stuffs ... never talk anything tensed , keep it cool .. talk the good times spent that will make feel good... Well my shopping girl is a nice & practi...