Relations, commitment , career and confusion !!!

friend 1 says me :
I used to love a girl deeply n madly . She wanted to marry me . I said I had to build my career for next two years so you have to wait for me . She couldnt wait because its a long wait for a girl .
Last year she got married . I thought I would get over her but I was wrong . Today is her birthday and I called her to realize that she is the only girl I had ever loved .

friend 2 says :
we both were into relation . one day she said me something that hurt me n i didnt talk to her for next one year . She tried to to call me a million times but i ignored her. Few months back I got a mail of her wedding invitaion. I called her up n got to know that she was trying to contact me to ask for marraige.

friend 3 says:
She was my best friend . We were together for long time n knew every minute detail of each other . She expressed her feelings towards me . I told I have never thought about you more than a friend .To my surprise she continued to love me and take care of me . I didnt realize her importance till the day when she came to me to give me her wedding invitation ..I couldnt get anyone like her after that.. Now I know she was the one ..

Well guys these are not some movie scenes . Its real stories my friends told to me in past two weeks .. So I thought , why not have a analysis of this situation .. The discussion is needed for my fourth friend ...
"His condition is that he has taken break from his relation to choose from his career and relation ..."

Love - I used to say that you can fall for any person who will take care n make u special ... But I think you stop at some point . You are lucky if you realize that on time ... In all above three cases the realization was too late . In between came career n ego ...
Love is such a pure thing that it can never hold ego ...
Career can always go hand in hand with love. I have a live example of this . There was a friend of mine in tata motors . He was in love with a girl who was of different caste n also elder than him ... In addition to this he wanted to do MBA and also he was not having too much of money as he has just joined the company .. Inspite of all these challenges he married her . He also fulfilled his dream of MBA n now he is in one of the IIMs.

in words of my 1st friend "sala ek to 60 saal ki choti si jindgi hai , aadhi life to career banane mein chali jaati hai aur baaki ghar basane mein . jo chaha wo kabhi nahi mila . isliye agar koi pasand hai to bol do kyonki doosra chance nahi milega."

love n enjoy