MERI STORY KA KYA HOGA

Hi Everybody….

In the past few topics most of us have written about their career and future plans…
A lot of us are not satisfied or in a confused state… For this problem there is only one solution, just do what your heart says…

As far as I am concerned, I have found my way… My Amway Business is on a great run…In today’s scenario whatever I do I get success… My customer base has grown so big that it is becoming difficult for me to manage… I am in search of a few people to join with me…
The problem with me is not on career front…Its in my love life…

Most of you know I am after a girl who is already committed…And the commitment is to the highest level…Its been 1 year and 8 months since the time I had first seen her…I still remember that day…In fact I remember all the time spent with her… I don’t know what is special in her that makes me crazy for her…I have been in contact with a large no. of girls but haven’t developed so intimate feeling as is the case with her… From day one I know she is committed but I didn’t care for it…. What to say about her…She is a type of girl who lives on her own terms… An independent girl..A perfect & ideal girl for whom I had always dreamt of…

I am writing this post to know a solution… Oh I haven’t told you the problem…. See I talk to her … We are good friends… But I don’t know where I am heading towards… Six months back I got so much irritated that we stopped talking … socha ki use bhool jaunga….Unfortunately, I couldn’t forget her… She is everywhere around me… Finally after some four months gap we again started talking… I don’t know what God has plans for me… na use bhoolne deta hai na use pass aane deta hai …. I had one complain to God …He made my entry very late in her life… Ab entry kara hi di hai to ye to bata ki aage karna kya hai…kuch hint bhi nahi mil raha hai upar se... She is also a great girlShe knows I love her with great passion then also she is so sweet to talk to me… A salute to her...

Now I am very much used to everything happening in my life…I have left it on God… I am putting my full concentration on my business…So, my friends any solution or comment to this unconditional one sided true love story… Think if you are in same situation like mine…

Another VDO..

Guys I've taken some clips from college and put them together into a VDO. I'd reduce it's size to upload it, so bear with the quality of the VDO.
njoy..

What Should One Do After Graduation?

Okay, this post is not really to lecture you folks about your career goals and paths. It's just that I happen to come across a few pretty noteworthy articles that spurred in me an urge to share my journey of thought processes right since the time I was old enough to decide on a career track for myself.

Back to 2001, while I was preparing for my 10th grade board exams. Since I was supposed to decide what stream to take up, I thought I'd be a chef later in my life. I was always enthusiastic about culinary concoctions and loved to eat myself. Hence, commerce seemed to be the stream to go. However, I was already, kinda, a comp whiz. Moreover, almost everyone from my family took the path of Computer Science and the market was also pretty favourable. So, my dad said I could always take up Science then and later take up being a chef, if I wanted to.

Alas, by the time I completed my Higher Secondary, he already managed to condition me to get into engineering and hence I decided to take up Computer Science. But then again, I was never a normal kid. I never wanted to do anything that everyone else does. I always wanted to be different. I decided I'd like to pursue the art of hacking, inspired by Ankit Fadia. I didn't know that I could rather term the field "web security", which is a big thing today. Anyway, folks back at home got scared and made me realize that Electronics Engineering was the thing to do and I should pursue that.

During on-campus of AIEEE, thanks to a AIR of 36K+, I could hardly get Electronics or Computer Science in any of the NITs and I was advised to opt for Electrical and Mechanical too. As fate has it, I ended up here, in NIT Jsr, majoring in Electrical Engineering. I know, I was a naive back then. I should have followed my heart. But then again, had that been the case, I wouldn't have met all you great guys who are some of my closest buddies.

2004 and came the heart stopper, I had to take leave from college for one whole fucking year! Well, right before that, I also happened to have a lovely and memorable train journey about which I'd blogged almost 3 years ago. Thus started my tryst with blogging. In 2007, I'd visited a career counsellor who'd pointed out my love and efficiency in literature and languages in general. She also made me realize that I am a whole and soul marketing guy. Engineering is a vocation I'd gotten into just by sheer tough luck. Yet, I wanted to make sure that this was what I wanted. I even worked with Crompton Greaves and gave all my heart to my work, just to check if a normal 9-5 is suitable for me. Fortunately or unfortunately, things seemed to be so much out of my comfort zone.

It was late 2007 that I decided to go pro on blogging. I started monetizing my personal blog. I started testing the market of content writing. Gradually I realized, this market had potential. I started forming up my own strategies. It gradually dawned onto me that I am not the kind of guy who'd like to report to a boss. Thus formed the idea of starting up a firm of my own.

December of 2007 and I stumbled upon a web site that ran on the very same business model that I'd thought to run on. It made me happy. It made me realize that my model worked for others, already. What caught my eyeballs all the more were the words "Patent Pending" written in bold, right at the top of every page. This particular fact spurred me out of my dream. I figured that I needed to run and I needed to run fast! I gradually started to make plans for my very first stint as an entrepreneur.

January of 2008 - I was on phone with RD, the founder of WATBlog and I could visualize my very first job. It was an ideal opportunity for me to test out my skill in blogging and also to feel if I am actually made for that market. To top it all, how many actually get the chance to work on something that they anyway love to do? I couldn't resist the offer.

Tonight, I had a word with Vikram Chauhan (one of our 2K2 seniors from North) who runs a forum nitjsralumni.com. I had been helping him out on the forum for quite some time. Now, I feel I also have the opportunity to work on the web site. Let's see how things work out on that front. Although I am not too enthusiastic about hardcore software programming, web applications always give me the orgasms. And also, more I work with web applications...more shall it help me serve as the Assistant Editor of WATBlog ;-).

Well...here is my story of trying to be different. I guess I had gotten more than enough of my share of bad luck just because I always refused to walk on the path that's already been made. Yet, the kind of satisfaction I derive from doing things my way, I feel everything else falls short before that.

And finally, here are 3 articles that made me share this little story with you all. I shall strongly suggest you read them as I am sure you'll love them. Rest, it's your life!

1. When choosing your career path, choose your passion.
2. The Myths of career transition.
3. Ways to teach your children to find the work they love.

P.S. - A wonderful and invaluable web site that every professional should keep visiting -> http://www.payscale.com/index/IN/Job

Update : I expect at least one followup post to this one and the links that I've posted, from the rest of the top floorers.

another TWM on the web..

Hey guys I was just surfing for the past half hour and after feeling bored I ran a google search for 'the-wall-mag'. I got the following link as the first result; http://thewallmag.com/.
See the TWM domain name is already gone. I was thinking if we can put our own site on the internet. Another plan!! what do u guys say??

Updates ,replies & masti !!!!

Guyysssssssss!!!!!!!
Wanted to update you all that my family has finally moved to Mumbai now & guess what I am really really very happy for it. Maybe I wouldnt have been that happy had I got moved there alone 'coz living there alone is a struggle in itself but when your family moves there you have all the comforts of the world.As they say "Home Sweet home". By the way, we are now on Dr. Ernest Borgoes Road,Parel .So meet ya sometime there & also let's plan a trip sometime in Dusherra to Khandla,Daman ,Goa etc.It'll fun !!!

@Rathz
Thanks for the compliment..btw who gives a damn abt "Inappropriate content"..if someone finds it that way so he shouldn't visit it naa & btw this blog is OURS where we can freely write whatever we want..Right ??

@Dion
Thanks man, it would have been much better had u joined us..Anyways, repeating it for the nth time can we have the pleasure of seeing some snaps from ur life there & btw any plans of comin' here in the near future..
& well talking abt our lazy Sam & the heights of his laziness & "chalta hai" attitude ..In Kol,he had a pretty gud shirt this time ,so i wore it for two days ..poora gandha kar diya us shirt ko & just when I thought he'll give it to Dhobi he wore it for the Jsr trip also after spraying some perfume ..hehehe!! So now u see he hasnt changed even a bit!!!!
Grapevine is abuzz that he hasnt got his jeans washed from the time he has come from Trivandrum..

Also one more incident worth sharing here...It was getting very hot in in the afternoon in hostel-I on the last day of our stay when everybody had left so I was sleeping with just my undies on .Gandhi got the shock of his life seeing me lying there like an insect in a kinda semi-naked state & in a fit of anger he said "Dont you have any shame man ?What is this?"
I said "Well yes,but it's too hot here"
He said "It's hot .so what ?? Am I not wearing clothes or wat ? Bloody Shameless people like you dont deserve to live on this earth .People like you should be burnt in hell."
I said "Okk!! burn me wherever you want but for god's sake,let me sleep now" & then also he went on hurling every possible curse on me.

Also I have just sent the link to the videos on your respective mail addresses.Have fun watching them.
Work hard,follow your passion ,be happy & live Life!!
Cheers!!

CONVO PICS

http://picasaweb.google.com/raj.alakshendra/Convo .....

is link pe CONVO ke photos hai....

Pics & videos uploaded

Hey guys I have finally uploaded the pics.
Hope you like them..
Here's the link. So Jet Set Go & pics dekho!! ..
http://picasaweb.google.com/msrrautela/Pics

Needless to say,please don't mind some of the quotes there.I hope u ll like them too!!!
& guys, I've uploaded some of the videos also..You'll die laughing on seeing those videos. Since they have a lot of our indecent & obscene talk so I'll mail you all the link to them instead of giving it here.

Jaate jaate here's something to lighten up ur moods .Meerut -The Legendary Rockstar of 2k3 came up wid the most bombastic analogy of all times!!
What happned is that we were walking & suddenly Meerut blurted out with a very serious tone
"I think Hitler used to listen to Black Metal & Death Rock"
I said "uhhh ?wat is diz now ?"
Again with a very thoughtful expression on his face ,he said "Ya , he was the one who was responsible for so much destruction & death on this earth & Death Rock is also assosciated with death so dat's y I think that Death Rock was responsible for Second world war as it may have inspired Hitler to do so"
Uhahahaha! I went mad laughing on his great thoughts.
I said "Forget about black metal & death rock tell me ,when did simple rock 'n roll start ?"
He said "1960s"
"& when did second world war take place? "
"1940s "
"So what the bloody hell made u come to the conclusion that Death Metal caused the Second world war "
"Yeh toh maine socha hi nahin.I think there's something definitely wrong with me .I should visit a Psychiatrist .Maybe it will help "

Well no exaggerations..he actually said those last few lines !!
Ok watch out for my mail with the link to the videos.
Love ya all..bbye!

FollowUp Post To "A Humble Request To All Girls"

It was the day before yesterday that I once postponed commenting on Raj's post "A Humble Request To All The Girls" and couldn't write a single word after that, until today. Anyway, I guess it's better late than never.

 

While reading the post through, I was kinda processing quite a few things right within my head. Raj takes up a certain topic that's been talked, written and sung about, innumerable times in history...and that's "Love".

 

Seriously, despite being in a stable (I hope I could call it so) relationship for over 3 years now, I still can't define the oh-so-elusive feeling called "Love". Ohkay, this post is not about lecturing you lot on relationships, but rather as a follow-up to Raj's previous post.

 

1. 1st and foremost, Raj says that "I guess on an average a girl might get proposed 5 times in her bachelorhood (I have no data on how much on married girls)". Does that mean that your data on single girls is absolutely correct and verified?
2. "start talking about the antics of your new boyfriend". Now, this is interesting. Dude, which of the girls in college actually talked to you about their boyfriends' antics, man? Ohkay, you really don't need to answer that but I'm just curious...HeHe!
3. There's a point where Raj says girls misunderstand when he asks them out for a harmless cup of coffee and then in the very same paragraph he declares that he's out there to fall in love. Doncha guys think that it's a bit hypocritical for him?
4. Raj also says "please don’t do it especially when I am sponsoring you a cup of coffee". Dude, please don't tell us that you were trying to buy out their emotions!

 

Okay, apart from the above points, there's another point that Raj raises to his girls. He pleads, "if possible do let me know when is the transition point, rather when you girls would see me as a serious person". Man, the magic is to know where the transition lies without being told.

 

I'd like to disagree with Dino on this point, here. Dino, I'm sure every female in college and otherwise knows the kind of commitment Raj puts into his relationships. So, that particular uncertainty has never been and can never be an issue. The thing is, Raj just needs to learn how his girls think and how they react and how they's like him to be so. And Raj, try to gauge situations and react without waiting for being told. Just follow your heart, man. Never care what others might think, even if that happens to be the girl you like. Be spontaneous and never change for others. Be how you are and be liked the way you are. If they can't take you for who you are, they can go fuck their own asses. And anyway, no girl would ever like to spend her life with a puppet who always needs to be told what to do and what not to.

 

Phew! Now that's a huge comment you got there, mate! Well, now shifting the limelight onto myself...my dad got transferred in Bhuj, just yesterday. So, I finally lose my base here in Mumbai. However, I plan to take up the offer I got from WATConsult and in that case, I'll have my office in Colaba (if you've heard of the place). So guys, just in case you have any contacts in Mumbai who could help me out with a nice cosy place to stay in, I'd be very grateful. Although I myself am also searching for a few places, I thought I'll let you all too in the loop. Thanks.

convo pics

get the convocation pics at

http://picasaweb.google.co.in/chiranjit.nit/ConvoMeetNITJAMSHEDPUR

A HUMBLE REQUEST TO ALL THE GIRLS

The one thing which I dread and am really afraid of is when a girl tells me "I cant look at you in that way", wonder what that is supposed to mean. God I hate it, fear it. Next day I keep looking at myself in mirror while shaving, and wondering if that has got to do with the way I look, the way I smile, the way I have my hair or it has got to do with her vision. And in general girls don’t want to argue and discuss this subject, while it is so obvious to them, it seems Latin Greek to me and leaves me totally perplexed. The only thing that I get out of them is that I don’t appear to be that serious. But the problem is that if I start talking serious stuff then I don’t even get this far, I mean then girls will never be interested in me.Because girls like fun-loving easy-going guys. So you see it is vicious circle. And I think the key is to identify the point of transition when I have to change myself from easy-going to hard-tuff, from talking about food and the latest Johny Depp movie to talking about future career prospectus and the real estate pricing.

But the most funniest thing that I find is that the same girl (I mean the same girl who tells me that I am not serious), when she goes out to meet the guy that parents have chosen for her, by default start seeing him as perspective husband, even though most of the times I find him as idiotic as myself.

I guess you girls have to understand that life is difficult for guys with the competition so high since most of the girls find a boyfriend just after their birth leaving none for a ideal guy like me. Moreover the female to male ratio is decreasing day by day. I guess on an average a girl might get proposed 5 times in her bachelorhood (I have no data on how much on married girls), whereas a guy like me might die to get proposed even once. Now when I have got to think about it I don’t think any of my boy-friends (somehow calling boy friends looks little shady, I mean my friends who are guys) have ever got proposed, at least no one has ever told me about it. And trust me guys also have very little threshold of falling in love, and they practically fall in love with any girl. I think if a guy meets a girl for ten times he would surely fall in love. This is especially true if the guy comes from some college like NIT or IIT where there is scarcity of quality girls.

So please all you girls don’t take it very seriously if I ask you out for a cup of coffee, I am just looking for a harmless cup of coffee. Don’t make any character based assumptions about me. And please don’t treat me as an agony uncle and start talking about the antics of your new boyfriend, about how he does not pay any attention to you or whatsoever, because I AM NOT HERE TO SOLVE PROBLEMS, I ALSO WANT TO FALL IN LOVE. I might listen with lot of enthusiasm but my heart says “oh no not again” and please don’t do it especially when I am sponsoring you a cup of coffee. And if possible do let me know when is the transition point, rather when you girls would see me as a serious person. One last request never ever say that I am too good and I will get any girl in this universe. Just answer me if am so good then why I haven’t got a perfect match after wandering around 16 states of India and wasting 23 years of my valuable life being single.

Cheers.