It was the day before yesterday that I once postponed commenting on Raj's post "A Humble Request To All The Girls" and couldn't write a single word after that, until today. Anyway, I guess it's better late than never.
While reading the post through, I was kinda processing quite a few things right within my head. Raj takes up a certain topic that's been talked, written and sung about, innumerable times in history...and that's "Love".
Seriously, despite being in a stable (I hope I could call it so) relationship for over 3 years now, I still can't define the oh-so-elusive feeling called "Love". Ohkay, this post is not about lecturing you lot on relationships, but rather as a follow-up to Raj's previous post.
- 1st and foremost, Raj says that "I guess on an average a girl might get proposed 5 times in her bachelorhood (I have no data on how much on married girls)". Does that mean that your data on single girls is absolutely correct and verified?
- "start talking about the antics of your new boyfriend". Now, this is interesting. Dude, which of the girls in college actually talked to you about their boyfriends' antics, man? Ohkay, you really don't need to answer that but I'm just curious...HeHe!
- There's a point where Raj says girls misunderstand when he asks them out for a harmless cup of coffee and then in the very same paragraph he declares that he's out there to fall in love. Doncha guys think that it's a bit hypocritical for him?
- Raj also says "please don’t do it especially when I am sponsoring you a cup of coffee". Dude, please don't tell us that you were trying to buy out their emotions!
Okay, apart from the above points, there's another point that Raj raises to his girls. He pleads, "if possible do let me know when is the transition point, rather when you girls would see me as a serious person". Man, the magic is to know where the transition lies without being told.
I'd like to disagree with Dino on this point, here. Dino, I'm sure every female in college and otherwise knows the kind of commitment Raj puts into his relationships. So, that particular uncertainty has never been and can never be an issue. The thing is, Raj just needs to learn how his girls think and how they react and how they's like him to be so. And Raj, try to gauge situations and react without waiting for being told. Just follow your heart, man. Never care what others might think, even if that happens to be the girl you like. Be spontaneous and never change for others. Be how you are and be liked the way you are. If they can't take you for who you are, they can go fuck their own asses. And anyway, no girl would ever like to spend her life with a puppet who always needs to be told what to do and what not to.
Phew! Now that's a huge comment you got there, mate! Well, now shifting the limelight onto myself...my dad got transferred in Bhuj, just yesterday. So, I finally lose my base here in Mumbai. However, I plan to take up the offer I got from WATConsult and in that case, I'll have my office in Colaba (if you've heard of the place). So guys, just in case you have any contacts in Mumbai who could help me out with a nice cosy place to stay in, I'd be very grateful. Although I myself am also searching for a few places, I thought I'll let you all too in the loop. Thanks.