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"my arrange marriage story" part 1

Guys , here is my complete arrange marriage story ... it is going to a bit lengthy but interesting :

Around 11 pm in the night on 1st july my dad called me and asked, rather ordered me to reach nagpur after ten days to see a girl .. I was like making excuses as i have lots of work and where will i get the tickets . Next my bro talked to me and said "bhaiya ek baar photo to dekh lo" ... "bhabhi mast hai " He then gave me her email id and asked to search on FB ... Unfortunately , my BB internet was not working that night ... Again my bro words were echoing in my ears ... then only it clicked me to use my BB wifi (which i rarely use) .. We have our common broadband wifi in my friend's flat nearby... It was mid night by that time and they had slept so i just went to their flat and standing outside their door i started the Fb search ... now the security person came there "sahab yahan kya kar rahe ho" .. man kiya bol doon "darwaze pe susu kar raha hoon " !!!
I make him understand that i am surfing ... Now he is arguing that if the door is closed how is it possible to surf ... I got really frustrated n said him in calm voice with a grin on my face "bas hota hai aur ab aap jayenge yahan se" ... Finally he left off...
I again started my search and my heart was beating so fast ... When i saw her pic n i was like oh my god ... She is one hell of a beauty ... I got mad ... I instantly called my mom n said mere side se yes hai ... Mom said don't be so excited , first meet her .. I replied that i dont have a single reason to say no to this girl ...
The girls name is neha ... Guys, now dont start searching "neha" on FB .. there are numerous of the same name ...

I have been hearing of neha from past one year .. She used to come to our Amway meetings n mom used to always say that tumhari shadi isi se karaenge ... Mom is like a big fan of her's ... she praise her a lot ...

Now comes the journey part to nagpur ... I was in Bhubneshwar on 9th july to attend on wedding ... From Bhubh to nagpur it took me 24 hours to reach Nagpur ... I would have reached Delhi in that time ... I took a lot of pain to reach home - changed two train for such a short distance...
In these 10 days dad used to cal me daily asking me "beta aa raha hai na " When i was in train he called me every hour asking where has the train reached as if by his call train would run faster ... Infact he used to give me report of Neha whereabouts too like neha abhi train mein hai , uski train warangal station pahuch gayi hai ...
Here , I must admit that even I was very eager to meet her ... Usually i only sleep in train journeys but this time i couldn't sleep properly ... Just thinking of her !!!

I reached nagpur on 11th morning ... The meet was set at 5 pm in some restaurant ... The restaurant was my hangout place during school days ...
That whole day my parents and brother were making me ready ... On a single day they applied face wash , CTM , face masque , polishing scrub on my face... God !!! it was too much ... I got irritated n said i can't become fair even if you paint me with white color ... Now listen to my mom's reply "beta neha bahot gori hai , tumko bhi thoda saaf dikhna chahiye uske competion mein ... You know guys mom have got answers to every damn word of their kids ...

Next my family was deciding my dress combination ... Can you believe one day trip to Nagpur , I had carried some six shirts ... After trying several combinations on me they all agreed on suit ...

My dad came from office at 4 pm only... His office gets over at 5 ... papa ne bhi bunk maar diya .. after all he is also an engineer ;)
My dad is a very non punctual man but that day he was so impatient that he drove to us at the venue at 4.45 pm only ...

Those 30 min wait for the girl was like killing me ... I went to washroom two times ... I was playing with spoon and tapping the table and doing all kinds of stupid things ...

At 5.15 they came and here enters the fairy !!!

to be continued in part 2 ...

Comments

Ojas said…
Awesome! Cant wait to hear part II
raj alakshendra said…
nice to see u after such a longtime ...
will be posting the second part soon ...
Unknown said…
Haha Raj... you forgot to mention that all the while you were waiting, you were giving me live updates on BBM about the same ;-)
Rajorshi said…
hey Raj!

nice post.. but why hv u put a 'heart break' as the pic.. rather it must be a full heart. isn't it?

After all ~~ Do dil mil rahe hain ~~
raj alakshendra said…
@ shayon
I'll put that in part 2 ...

@ raj bhai
I wondering that nobody asked about the pic ... Wait for the suspense in part 2 !!!
Unknown said…
mast, you have so many interesting anecdotes !

abey story mein bhi advertising kar di ;) [On a single day they applied face wash , CTM , face masque , polishing scrub on my face]
Sakshi said…
And Rathz,
Did you miss out the fact that Raj's mom liked her because of the 'Amway' bit! ;)
raj alakshendra said…
@ raths
Never miss a chance to market urself ...

@ sakshi
Actually amway thing was an addition benefit but obviously it was not the primary reason ..
@ Raj!
Enthralling story!
I guess we know the gist of it all, but re-reading the step by step situation is amazing (with all those small anecdotes)!
Can't wait for part 2. To get people more interested, you may want to extend it to part 3.

D
raj alakshendra said…
@ Dion
Initially , I was going to end it in part 2 but now I have extended it to 3 as per ur suggestion ...
@Raj
I was just laughing reading the story and especially the part where the dark knight i.e. you is getting ready or is being made ready for the show. Hahaha

Brilliantly written and the humour just flows. The narration seemed like as though I was watching a movie .
raj alakshendra said…
@mannu

was waiting for ur comment ... thanks for the praise ...
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