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Dil kabhi ganda, kabhi hai nek banda,Dil ka bharosa kaise koi kare..

Dil kabhi thanda, kabhi hai atom bomb sa,

Yeh dhamaka kaise koi sahe..
Dil ki yahi khata hai, dil ko nahi pata hai...

Dil ki yahi khata hai, dil ko nahi pata hai....

Ki dil chahta hai kya..


With due respect to Mann, this post comes from my world as you put it... and in my world, I can talk about either pyaar ke side effects... politics ke side effects and most reluctuntatly laws ke side effects.

So this time I am going to try and analyse pyaar ke side effects... w.r.t to the boys (I promised Raj that I will come up with a post taking his life as case study...!!) so since Raj has decided to try his hand at reading the girls I am going to try and read the boys...


Good girls fall for bad boys... this is a classic story that has often been seen on and off screen... (Man I did fall for Shayon ) but if all the good girls fall for the boys then what happens to the good boys...??

They end up being just friends with the girl that they really dig for... ok, this has happened many a times. Not only that, the boys end up suffering the most in such a relationship... I mean, they would want the girl to be happy... and in order to provide for her happiness, they end up screwing their own happiness...

Trust me, there are very few guys who do that... but well... unfortunately for the girl she just sees him as a loyal friend.


This just makes me sit and wonder, as to why would a guy go the extent of being 'I am always here for you' with the girl that they like so much.... when it comes to confessing their love, where does all the macho thingy go...??? And though I completely agree that its not necessary that the one you love should love you back and that you should stop loving the girl concerned, but does that mean that you should screw up your happiness for just one girl... there is something known as moving on... if the boys become clingy what will the girls do...??

Arent' they the emotional fools. ( That does not mean that boys cant be emotionalll...!!!)


It has always been the men who have been macho and women oh all sensitive... I know we are in a progressevi society etc... but sometimes one needs to move on in life... warna baaki ladkiyon ka kya hoga... the Sex ratio is anyways going down...

Its hard to move on... but it always seems that the boys can do it... because apparently they do it.. or maybe it is just the bad boys who move on...




PS: Firstly I have not put a title on the post because, I just couldn't figure out the title... and secondly.. I am putting a disclaimer saying: I am sorry if I hurt someone by the end of the post. The intention of this post is not malafide.

Comments

Nice post, you've just described me in a nut shell. Not that I claim to be a good boy, I'm probably a bad boy with the tendencies of a good one.
Anyway, the study on guys is not tough or deep nor is the journey to there treacherous.
There are three simple things to a man's heart; sex, beer and food. And preferably in that order. So there you go, that's man in a nutshell.
Ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!
Only kidding!!!!!
raj alakshendra said…
Sakshi, u r quite eligible for a doctrate on boys... all d best for ur quest...

everyone has heard of Ideal Gas but its only hypothetical... its the real gas which is of use...
the same is the case here too...the good guys only end up being a good friend... m those one of good guys (not in my proffesional life)...frankly speaking i have sacrificed my happiness to a great extent for that one girl...
But finally i have started moving on.... its all part of life n v shouldnt hang up to a single thing... i jus remember a classic line..

dont make someone a priority in ur life whn the person thinks u a option in his/her life...

but then love is blind... i cant help it ... m jus crazy for her...
i dont know where this
" UNCONDITIONAL ONE SIDED TRUE LOVE STORY WILL END UP "
raj alakshendra said…
i have got a title for the post

Dil Ke Arman Aasuon Mein Beh gaye ...

n the post was great n it will help me moving faster in life..

i have got a topic for my next post

"Har Safalta Ke Peeche Ladki Ka Haath Nahi Hota "
m really moving faster...
Shayon said…
@ Saxi

Whoa! I'm actually impressed! Quite an 'analysis'. But temme something, What's with the sombre mood in the post?


@ Raj

Abhi bhi time hai, sudhar jaa! Aur kab tak chipka rahega?


@ Dino

If you are 'bad', then I'm Messiah himself... lolz!!
Sakshi said…
Thanks for the appreciation.

@Shayon
Well... the mood is not intentional...it just came on. And I agree that you are the messiah...

@ Raj
Oh, cmon you realise that you have to move on... and that is one step taken...
Btw- Bad title...

@ Dion:
hmmm... I have described you in a nutshell...and I have not really talked to u at all... It seems that guys truely are easy to read...or maybe not...!!!
Shayon said…
Humm...

Relationships!

I don't know... have got absolutely no clue how the nitty-gritties work.

Personally, every single relationship I ever got into, have managed to screw things up big time. More often than not, I could never figure out the the real nature of the relationship...and the pattern keeps iterating, till date!

I've kinda stopped trying to give structures to my relationships and just move on with flow..allow them to take the shape they wanna take. Rather than making my relationships adapt to my "needs", I adapt myself according to the course of flow.

*Shit! Saxi just called and I lost my flow in this comment. Anyway, I think I have, almost, kinda, summed up what I wanted to say. I know I wanted to say more...but, what the hell!!*

Peace!!
raj alakshendra said…
@shayon

girls alwez call at wrong time...
v r waiting for ur post... waise bhi ab tere ko mere ghar pe bahut time milega likhne ke liye...
Hey guys...
Am on a 10 day break ..so nt active these days as I dont have net.
Great post Sakshi..had written a big comment but somehow it couldnt get published ..Nevermind..will comment properly when I get bac to office next week..
Keep Blogging Guys!!
Sakshi said…
@ Mann
I am waiting for your comment...
n Belated birthday wishes...

@All
Is there a widget that can be added that puts up a birthday reminder on this page??

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