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Dil kabhi ganda, kabhi hai nek banda,Dil ka bharosa kaise koi kare..

Dil kabhi thanda, kabhi hai atom bomb sa,

Yeh dhamaka kaise koi sahe..
Dil ki yahi khata hai, dil ko nahi pata hai...

Dil ki yahi khata hai, dil ko nahi pata hai....

Ki dil chahta hai kya..

With due respect to Mann, this post comes from my world as you put it... and in my world, I can talk about either pyaar ke side effects... politics ke side effects and most reluctuntatly laws ke side effects.

So this time I am going to try and analyse pyaar ke side effects... w.r.t to the boys (I promised Raj that I will come up with a post taking his life as case study...!!) so since Raj has decided to try his hand at reading the girls I am going to try and read the boys...

Good girls fall for bad boys... this is a classic story that has often been seen on and off screen... (Man I did fall for Shayon ) but if all the good girls fall for the boys then what happens to the good boys...??

They end up being just friends with the girl that they really dig for... ok, this has happened many a times. Not only that, the boys end up suffering the most in such a relationship... I mean, they would want the girl to be happy... and in order to provide for her happiness, they end up screwing their own happiness...

Trust me, there are very few guys who do that... but well... unfortunately for the girl she just sees him as a loyal friend.

This just makes me sit and wonder, as to why would a guy go the extent of being 'I am always here for you' with the girl that they like so much.... when it comes to confessing their love, where does all the macho thingy go...??? And though I completely agree that its not necessary that the one you love should love you back and that you should stop loving the girl concerned, but does that mean that you should screw up your happiness for just one girl... there is something known as moving on... if the boys become clingy what will the girls do...??

Arent' they the emotional fools. ( That does not mean that boys cant be emotionalll...!!!)

It has always been the men who have been macho and women oh all sensitive... I know we are in a progressevi society etc... but sometimes one needs to move on in life... warna baaki ladkiyon ka kya hoga... the Sex ratio is anyways going down...

Its hard to move on... but it always seems that the boys can do it... because apparently they do it.. or maybe it is just the bad boys who move on...

PS: Firstly I have not put a title on the post because, I just couldn't figure out the title... and secondly.. I am putting a disclaimer saying: I am sorry if I hurt someone by the end of the post. The intention of this post is not malafide.